Surviving an Affair

[Have Faith]

I agree with MnSPD. I love my DB C. Her name is Jodi, but I have heard that all of them are good. She just helps me put everything in perspective.

I too believe that your H maybe addicted. My H has a similar addiction. He has done the same thing that your H has done, only it was in person and it has only been emotional. No physical. He finally admitted during one of our conversations exactly what you said "he would get them to fall for him then move on to the next one, he says it started it out as just an ego game for him, make him feel wanted and needed." The problem is that is like a drug. At least your H stopped the A. Mine got in to deep with this one and admits that he is addicted to her and is having trouble breaking it off.

The only thing that helped me was to ask questions about the OW. While it hurt, I did find out that my imagination worked overtime. I still don't know everything, but I sometimes think I know too much, as I read months of e-mails between them.

You have a lot going for your M. This can be a huge turning point for the both of you. You can grow and have an even better marriage. That is what I'm hoping for you and for me.

Faith