I wanted to share a story with you. When my whole affair thing went down, I had no one to talk to. I was very selective in who I talked to about my story, because I didn't want to be judged. At church, on an old messageboard (Christian) that I posted at, etc. I didn't want to be judged. Amy I know you know that feeling. Pride is SO HUGE!...
That being said, I have a few Christian friends who have not judged me. I had faith in them that they wouldn't judge. Others, not so much. I wish I could be more open, but even still I'm scared of being judged.
Love her, pray for her and offer her an ear (and an occassional 2x4 if necessary...)
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...