Ah. sorry to hear that.

Is your wife one of those people who almost never says "no" directly? but makes up excuses why she "cant" do things she doesnt want to do?

very difficult to have a real conversation or recovery plan with that type of person.

I'd say just focus on enjoying the movie together. and offer to pay.

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle