Atlas, discovering the problem is half the battle. Instead of asking her to throw a house party with you can you start doing those things with your S that you did with her? My H put our children on his quad, you can get a stroller and take him on hikes and picnics and focus on doing fun things with him. When W sees this then maybe that will make her think that you are fun again.
On the daycare thing, I know my children are shy at first and my S used to cry that he didn't want to go there because he had no friends. Ask the DC workers to get him involved in group activites with the other kids and maybe he will become happier.
I hate moving my kids to a new school and DC because it took them so long to make friends and now they have and now I have to move them.
Me: 41 H: 39 D: 6 S: 4 M-14 T-16 first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.) second bomb: 6-4-2007 (found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything) Kelley
