Waltzing again -one decision at a time!

[Have Faith]

Matilda2

I would agree with PennyMB. I would suggest that you don't file. Let him do it, but be prepared like PennyMB said. I was surprised when my husband actually filed for the D. However, he knew that he had 7 months to back out of it. In our state the D can be filed, but until he signs the final papers (he has 7 months to sign those papers and if he doesn't sign, they are null and void)it isn't final. My husband now refuses to sign the final papers. Like PennyMB my H doesn't want to be the bad guy and I too agree that as long as we are in picture, they have an excuse to not go through with any committments with OW. I'm afraid that if it would have been me that had to sign the final papers, I would be D by now, as at times, I didn't see any chance of us getting back together and I just would have given up. I'm now glad that it has to be him and not me.