HI I remember the other day when I talked to him about him being home for a month. He said that I needed to read an al-anon book that it would help me? What do you guys think? ONe of his friends is a recovering alcholic and told me my husband is like a dry alcholic all the symptoms of an alcholic but doesn't rely on drinking.
Penny,
I do go to alanon meetings and read alanon books, my favorite is a courage to change. my H does have a problem with drinking so it helps me. but honestly i think it is good for anyone. the basic principal of alanon is alot like DB'ing. that you can only control and change yourself, that you need to worry about your own box, to detach with love, and the let the other person live their life and figure things out on their own in their own time. it could not hurt.
