1. She said when I talk about W I sound angry (again!). Crap. I am really working on that cuz I dont really feel angry. What I do in IC is sort of let it all hang out, I am relatively intense anyway so it comes across as angry? Perception is reality so something to change despite my current efforts, I need to reevaluate that part of me.
I don' think you're angry, but your intensity probably comes across that way. You are focused, particularly on your sitch. Think about how you are around a goodf friend who you are relaxed around. Or how you would act around a sister. I think if you could truly adopt that "as if" attitude, it might help your sitch a lot. Of course, you will have to show it consistently over time (actions not words).
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M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link
