I can see that, but it isn't as easy as it sounds to find confidence in your failures.
It doesn't sound easy to me and that wasn't my intention.
I understand that it's difficult to show confidence when all "evidence" seems to indicate that you have nothing to be confident about. Much in the same way it's hard to even "act" attractive when circumstances seems to be proving that you're not.
What I was trying to describe is a perceptual shift away from focusing on the outcome of events onto your ability to handle the outcome.
