You all still think I should not reach out for any affection, even a hug? Like I said it has been weeks since I have stopped and he hasn't initiated... (Did I happen to mention that he is the most stubborn person I know? And all his friends/family would agree with that one!) Which makes me think, if I don't he NEVER will...
I feel ya on this, my W never initiates anything so I have said the exact same thing, if I dont, she never will!!! So, having connected w/ you there, here is my advice, give it time, then test the waters, time means a month at leat IMO.
I know you think it is a "playing games" or totally unlike you to pull back a bit, but you dont have to be "like totally unavailable", it can be subtle. That is a 180, yes? At the end of the day, the goal is to be a bit more self aware and be a person who is not always at your Spouse's beckon call and so predictable. That is BORING anyway!
You mention 2 weeks being a long time and he should have figure this out in a week or 2, WRONG! In a WAS mind, Ill bet 2 weeks is pushing the bounds of even thinking about doing this, so I say this is a good thing!
CVA
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.
