SAME HERE, What do we do? I feel the same way but....... the other side of my head tells me if I pursue I will push her away.
I think we need to find the Line between GAL and Pursuit.
Husband
this is something that I have been struggling with too. i am trying to GAL, and do the LRT techniques but sometimes I feel like they make him feel like I condone his behaviour and that I have moved on and the door is closed. I am trying to figure out ways to let him know that the door is open without breaking any LRT rules and not doing any pursuing, etc.
For now, I find ways to touch elbows as i say bye, or some sort of accidental touch as I hand him the baby etc. Part of me longs so much for that touch, so it is hard not to just run to the door and wrap my arms around him when he walks in. It is so hard playing it cool.
