Mike,

I actually think I read that story in my D's Mother Goose book. Thanks for the laugh.

Hope,

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I'm keeping all my options open...who knows where I will end up in a couple of years.

I understand what you mean. I am actually looking forward to what might be in front of me. Who knows: who, what, where.....

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Have you seen a document with your asset distribution? Was it a settlement agreement?

Nothing yet from our L's. We have been trying to work this out between the two of us, but as you have read we are not always in agreement on everything. I am really hoping that we can settle everything without our L's involvement and have them write it up to submit to the courts. I actually feel this is still a possibility.

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H said he would notify me when the court date is. I won't have to attend but I think I need to.

If this is what you need to do to close out this chapter of your life then do it, then don't look back. You have bigger and better things ahead of you.