You know the confusion is a good sign. Its extremely wearing on us. Its a sign they are seeing some good in what was.....H's friend saw the confusion in my H about the divorce, he went to work on him to push him towards saving the M.


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest