Need advice on WAW with OM

[svejk]

My wife is actually the person who told me about the meeting my best friend set up with her. I've already told her that I had nothing to do with it and that I thought it was a bad idea to have our friends try to interfere in our relationship. I also told her that any decision on our relationship should be strictly between us and that I trust her reasoning/judgment won't allow her to be influenced by anything other people say. She basically agreed with me and she's not worried about anything my friend has to say. So I guess the meeting is going forward and I've done all I can to try and stop it.