Sounds like you handled a totally bad and sh*tty situation very well. I can only imagine the torment you must have gone through. I would have totally freaked out on the OM.

She is definitely confused with her thinking. She spends the weekend with the OM, then wants to console you (cuddle with you) to make her feel better about her behavior.


“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED”
“You have to have a life to share a life with someone”
“When you stop resisting, you start learning”

M15yrs
Divorced 07/07