I am with you on that Cemar. Check out my new "Horny" thread and you will see we are coming from the same place.
If you are not willing to cheat nor willing to divorce is there a third option? Can you just ask her if it is OK for you to go outside of the marriage to get some of your needs met?
When she says no ask her why not? You understand the fact that she is not as horny as you and are quite willing to make an allowance. But if you are horny and you are not getting your needs met at home why would there be any problem for her in letting you do that? As long as you promise to keep her and cherish her and not divorce her and always use a condom. What would be the problem for an adult man with adult needs going out and getting those needs met. You would not be cheating.
After all at the moment you're a pain to live with right
