I know the OM stuff is really tough, but you are doing great at not letting it consume you. It is good how you handled your W's trip too. I had to do the same when my H took a trip out of town about a month ago, supposedly by himself. I didn't let myself ask questions about it and that helped because, since I didn't talk or think about it much, it was almost as if the trip didn't happen in my mind. Yay!
