Trying to put forth certain behavior that is "attractive" to a woman puts the man in the trap of trying to gain approval. The Nice Guy book talks specifically about this and warns of that trap. The book also postulates that this comes about from the absence of father roles and the expectations of the feminist movement to "shape" men in the feminine ideal, and how that "ideal" ends up not being attractive to those women who tried to create it in the first place.
So if there is one particular behavior that men should follow to become attractive to women, I say it is not give a rat's ass about whether you (the man) are attractive to women. That will attract the most women. _________________________ Cobra
