Hey Saffie! Yes I guess the sunshine might be helping or not helping - LOL
Cadesmom: H is not on anything besides alcohol of course and that can sure knock a guy's libido out of whack.
Corri: It is not a big deal, except that it is a little bit. The second time I did not make a big deal of it and neither did he so that was fine. Anxiety that he may think I am being selfish has got something to do with it. It is not the O I am really worried about here, it is just the fact that I know when I am sated in that department I will often not O, so I am thinking that he is currently full-up and needs no more. What I am really talking about here is how we deal with general long-term incompatibility of desire for sex. The weird dynamic that that incompatibility causes and the fact that the HD person WILL end up spending most of their M feeling a bit starved and the LD person WILL end up spending most of the M feeling a bit hounded.
And is there anything to be done about it or is it just a case of c'est la vie.
BTW, I will reply to your email. Just getting a few more bits of info together for you.
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
