No she is not solution based...how do you find solution based couns? I've been seeing her since before H and I split...she reminded me of why I left and just all sorts of stuff yesterday...and if he is dating does he really want to fix our M, itwas just so emotional...and then with him texting yesterday, it just was so confusing...he's already texting this morning. Said he would like to stop by...which is awesome. Unless he gets called out to work. My emotions and mind are really playing some evil tricks on me right now...I know in my heart I want this to work...I just have what my Couns said replaying in my head...do you really want a man with all of these character flaws (someone who would continue to date while your married...along with all of your previous problems)for the rest of your life...oh my gosh just when I think I have this figured out...she laid that one on me!! I believe, with hard work things can change...or at least I hope they can!!


H-32
Me-29
T-10years
M-4yr (10/04)
Me- WAW 1/07
I filed for D 2/07
D put on hold 5/07
H re-files for D 9/08
WOW! trying MC 10/08

"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"