LS:
Glad to hear you "survived." I knew you would do OK!! Also, great pix.

I think ediemarie had great advice. Take things slowly. Respond to anything that she says by saying, "I'm going to need to think about that." You do not need to respond immediately to anything that she says. Just keep that in mind today, tomorrow, and in the future (I too have a problem with "foot-in-mouth" disease - always saying the wrong thing). I try to use that phrase to buy some time to respond appropriately. It drives the wife crazy, but it protects me.

Regarding physical contact, I would say take it slowly. She has moved away from you. Make yourself an attractive target, and wait for her to move toward you . Just my opinion.


Me: 48
Divorce final May 2010
B: 19
B: 15
G: 9