I just had a comment on him not having an "O." I remember after the D bomb and I started initiated all the time, H at one point didn't have one and/or it took longer for him. This freaked me out, thinking he didn't want me or something along those lines. He is on an AD, and I know that affects that as well. Is your H on anything? Also, like I said, it could just be that it takes longer since he's "getting it" all the time. Not sure though.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10