And how do you think he feels? Can you empathize if he thinks he's responsible for your unhappiness?
I always end up thinking that he doesn't talk to me because he doesn't want to talk to ME.
And again can you understand that he might have the same feeling, that you don't want to make love to him because of how you feel about him?
You and I may know that's not true but can you see how his feeling of rejection is the same as your feeling of rejection. REALLY sad when you realize that in reality you both LOVE each other and you two are just struggling with being able to show it and receive it.
But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus