A couple of Quotes from Rollercoasterider (RCR)

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Things will all work out in the end. If they haven't worked out yet, it must not be the end.


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Every low blow from her brings you down more. You are subjecting yourself to this by giving her the opportunity to 'do the right things.' But she won't do that. By contacting her you are hearing what you don't want.


Hence detachment and minimum contact