I try to be very happy and in a good mood when he comes home each evening.
This is so positive. My H said to me that the thing he had really missed at home was a smiley happy face and that was something the OW had. IT made up for her large hips and other deficiencies to a big extent. So doing that is such a good thing to do. It sounds like your war is being won by YOU. I hope so
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength