And because you value your sexuality enough to be drawn to guys HD enough to feel you up in their sleep.
True enough. One interesting thing is that I would say when I first started dating NG I was more psychologically HD than him simply because I'm pretty sure sex wasn't the issue in his marriage but I very quickly lost that feeling as soon as it became clear to me that he was physically HD. I'm pretty sure that if we saw each other more often he would be more physically HD than me but since we're both psychologically easy-going it wouldn't be a big issue. He said "Sorry about that." and started laughing like he really wasn't very sorry at all when I told him about his sleep habits.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver