Sounds like more of the same from your W. Push, pull, push, pull, push, pull, etc. I'm surprise you haven't complained about any whiplash! Seriously though, I just don't know what to say about your W anymore. She is so confused it drives me nuts just reading about it . I think it might be time for you to work on detaching more and not being there for her ALL of the time. Be there for your kid and when it serves his best interest, but when she needs to talk and for you to listen, it might be good for you to not be quite as available. GAL and be a little more mysterious (but not in a negative way). Just act content and be busy with things that YOU want to do. Take stock and check for cheese -- give it at least a few weeks, and decide whether or not it has had any positive effects and brought you closer to your goal(s).
Great on the job sitch! Hope you get it if that's something that will truly make you happy in the long run. We must all strive to have a career that we enjoy being involved in!
As far as the daycare issues with S goes, I too wouldn't worry too much. Kids all exhibit different behaviors at different stages of their personal development and in social settings. It sounds like this is really new for him, and the fact that he is young says something too. Give him time, but continue monitoring his behavior there via his teacher(s). Be there to love him and to be the best dad you can be. Do this and he will be fine. Give him time, dad.
Seriously though, I just don't know what to say about your W anymore. She is so confused it drives me nuts just reading about it 
. I think it might be time for you to work on detaching more and not being there for her ALL of the time. Be there for your kid and when it serves his best interest, but when she needs to talk and for you to listen, it might be good for you to not be quite as available. GAL and be a little more mysterious (but not in a negative way). Just act content and be busy with things that YOU want to do. Take stock and check for cheese -- give it at least a few weeks, and decide whether or not it has had any positive effects and brought you closer to your goal(s). 
