I am a little jealous of the swimming, etc. It is hotter than he!! up here. SS was at the sitters today, bad day to try and work outside. I went through a similar convo with SIL several months ago, glad I did it, but certainly did have some backlash. Not all bad though. It is good to see you centered and doing what is best for you. In the end if you choose to take a seperate path, at least you know it is the best one.