I had a very nice conversation with H today. He said his attorney said we don't have to sign the D papers because the Judge signed them. I don't know but if that is so then I am D. Must be in God's plan if that is the case.
H wants to keep me on his auto policy for as long as possible because he said it would be cheaper for me??? Then he said he wanted me to sign off his bank account so he can get it changed over (I guess that means get my name off it and change the address. He just bought new checks so that seems like a waste but oh well) When I told him that it would be a while until I was off work during the day so I could do it, he told me to take my time, no hurry. Then he said he wants us to keep the debit card. He said in case the boys or I needed anything, we would have the card??? I can understand wanting the boys to have access to his account but ME???
He is trying to be really nice but I am sure it is out of guilt because he is moving in with heroin and the boys are struggling with it.
Time will tell. I have to believe that God is speaking to him, too. Even if he doesn't realize it yet.
Please pray with me to put a godly counselor in H's life soon. Thanks for your support. I also need your prayers for my S32. He begins stem cell therapy tomorrow. I am not sure all the details but I know that once the stem cells are harvested, he will get high-intensity chemo to completely kill his immune system. This will leave him so vulnerable, it scares the daylights out of me.
Last edited by ANewMe; 08/08/0704:40 AM.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
