Yes, I can see that this is going to be a roller coaster. I am working on the whole patience thing.
I found out something about his counseling today. He has an appointment next week and that is the last time before he has to get approval from his commander. T said that even if he gets approval, they may not let him come back to her because they may want him to go to someone on base. That is not good because I think this lady really gets him and I think he should continue to go to her. But it is out of my control, and kind of even out of his control. We could pay out of pocket...but I'm not sure we could afford that with all these other expenses right now. I can go as much as I want to anyone I want...I think it is different for them because they can't deploy them if they are in counseling so it is probably hard to get it approved.
I have someone to take me to the airport, I just thought he would offer. We actually did go to dinner before his game tonight. That was interesting. He could not have been more distant. It was almost like he was doing me a favor by being there. I don't want to completely break contact with him, but I think after tonight I am done calling him. I am done asking him to do things. At least for a while. I don't need that. I want my husband back, not this person that he has become. The only positive thing I noticed was that he still had his wedding ring on. Going home tomorrow will be a big help.
Sorry about the anger issues. That is one thing about my H, he doesn't really get angry. He has always been emotional, but now all emotion is gone. Your H seems kind of back and forth. Was he like that when he left before? Transfer the mortgage?? That sounds like something my H has said. He said that about the car...just transfer it to him. Whatever.
Well, I am leaving bright and early in the morning. If I have access to a computer I will update, otherwise it will be when I get back in a week. I am pretty sure I will have a computer though. Hang in there Terey!
