Trust me, limbo sucks! But being able to focus on things you enjoy does certainly help, heck there are still times I go through the motions and wish W was there. In the end most of the time I am having fun and need the mental vacation. Sorry you did not get the response you were looking for from W! I am sure she is curious and sees. One of the hardest things is to have no expectations. If you see positive motion, determine how you got that response, accept the baby step and keep moving on for yourself. From experience, I can tell you not to get to wrapped up when the positives string together. Been there, done that and when W retreated again, I was left feeling the pain all over. Stay consistant and keep working on the things you can control, w is not one of these. It does get easier, but there are times you get gut checks and it hurts like he!!. Just try not to let yourself get out of your "happy place" for long periods again. One exercise that someone told me when I first started was to journal. Then go back and write about the same thing, focusing on the postive. How does each make you feel? Which was easier? Try it and see what you come up with.
