Need advice on WAW with OM

[svejk]

Cliffy,

Thanks for you comments. My comment about putting life on hold until your WAS decides is how I feel at the moment because even though I am implementing GAL I am still constantly thinking about her and cannot enjoy any activity. Hopefully it will get easier to enjoy the things I used to before the separation. From your comments it sounds like if I keep up GAL and PMA it will gradually improve. But right now I'm just going through the motions. In the last couple weeks I have resumed all my leisure activities (golf, ice hockey, mtn. biking, exercising, poker) after a 2-3 months of basically doing nothing but feeling sorry for myself. I still have a hard time believing that my life in limbo will be enjoyable as it was before separation, until my marriage is resolved one way or the other. I guess time will tell, so I will keep trying until I've had enough.

Thanks,
Svejk