Need advice on WAW with OM

[svejk]

As I mentioned earlier in my thread, I am taking a little vacation next week and I asked my wife if she could watch my dogs while I am out of town.

I was hoping to get some kind of reaction/curiosity out of her since I did not elaborate on my plans at all. I guess I was a little too optimistic... her only reaction was "no problem."

Although there was no outward sign of any concern/curiosity, hopefully she is thinking about what I'm up to.

I wonder how long I should wait for her to show some kind of reaction to the LRT before I should contact her or if I should contact her at all? She usually contacts me every few days, but if she doesn't I don't want to lose contact with her altogether.

As you can see by my posts I'm very confused and back and forth about whether I should put up with the OM and see what happens or if I should confront her and end it. My attitude about that changes from hour to hour. When I think about what a terrific lady she is I want to keep trying, but when I think about her with the OM I want to end the relationship and my suffering so I go on with my life.

Svejk