Heywire Dr.Glover is talking about healthy MB a bit differently than a ST would allot of NiceGuys use it as an escape from uncomfortable emotions. I'll use myself as an example I never wanted to confront my own feeling of loneliness and would instead just feel like MB to sooth myself. I didn't even know that I was avoiding the unpleasant emotion it was such a habitual thing to do when ever I was confronted with a situation where I may feel lonely. I had been doing it since I was a teen not to feel good in a healthy way but to deal with my own uncomfortable emotions.