not really sure what a maintenance agreement is, but i will ask when i go in on thursday. he really does not have the money for an attorney, nor do i. if we end up getting an attorney he would have to ask his mom for the money.
in order for me to stay home with the kids and only work part time, we were pay check to pay check, and now with having an added expense of him renting a room it doesn't help.
luckily we have no debt whatsoever, nor do we have assets other then two vehicles. we have no car payments, no mortgage, no credit card bills. so really the only thing that would be an issue when it comes to actually having to file a divorce would be the children.
i think tomorrow i am going to give him a heads up and let him know that i plan on getting those two bits of paperwork underway, we had talked about it before. i guess i will see how he reacts to it tomorrow. if he asks me why i just dont file divorce also (which i think he may) i am just going to state i am not ready for that.
