Mattie, You do it only when you are ready. This is one decision you have a say in. Maybe we didn't have a say in what the WAS did, but you do have control over your actions. Take your time and do what is best for you and DD.
Hugs, Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon