Scott,
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Sounds like you left just in time, today was 95 and humid.
Yeah, yesterday wasn't too bad. Today was a lot hotter.
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Be thankful that it is a remorseful TM. And it does suck....You are to great of a woman to have to be put through this hell. You do not deserve it.
I am grateful that it he is being remorseful, but it still is very frustrating and sad. I tried for months to help him see the light and he just couldn't. I tried to save him from himself. I hope another man can see me as a great woman...not a divorced woman with a H that left her for OW.
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I would bet you that he had a much better life with you then he has with the bimbo. To bad it is to late for him to see that.
He did have a much better life with me. Your D5 would be able to see it...I don't know how a 28 year old man can't want to change it. I'm afraid he sees it...it's just too late to fix it.
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He would have way to much work to even come within a mile of the person that you are. Not in him I guess, easier to do nothing and sink down to the bimbo's level.
Not to toot my own horn, but I think the same. I have taken this time to learn about myself and become a stronger, better person...all he's done is sink. Pretty soon the hole is not going to have any light left in it.
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Again glad you had a fun safe trip and no crazy homeless guys tried picking up on you.
No Chicago guys (homeless or not) tried to pick me up. Maybe that will all come in good time when I am ready.

Mike,
Thanks for the funny comment...made me smile.

Okay, so tomorrow I am going to try and find a notary and get the Entry of Appearance, Waiver, and Consent signed. I'm still a little apprehensive, but I need to to get this D finalized asap...I know I shouldn't say this, but I need to assume H is not trying to screw me over. Scott, in your wife's D petition, did it list out your assets? My H's does not list any assets out. I think all is ok because the judgment lists everything out and that is the last step...it just seems like things are being done out of order.