Husband, yeah you are right, I am just ultra sensitive to her being brought up period. He probably doesn't mean anything by it and I need to not let it get to me.
I am still trying to figure out the best way to let him know that I am not ok with this, and I may just sit down over the next week and try to draft a letter that addresses just that. I also have been wanting to talk to him about my concerns with how the children are dealing with this all. Since I see them more then him, I am seeing things that I do not think he is aware of. I do not want to draft it in a way to make him feel at fault, but more in the way of he is a partner is raising them, and I need his help in helping them through this and find out what his ideas and thoughts are. Possibly maybe something like that will get him thinking about what his decisions really mean for the family as a unit? I dont know if he is ready for that, but it may just make me feel better?
