Interesting question. I think LD men are avoiders by nature, and I think HD ladies tend to have strong personalities which contribute to the imbalance.
If you think about Honeypot's R... I think she would say she had behaviors that were contributing factors. The behaviors a woman has to change are different than those a man would have to change.
So, to answer your question... yes... but I wouldn't call it 'just acting unattractive.' It makes it sound simplistic, kwis?
Once you 'get' it, it seems obvious... and the changes you make, to an outsider, would appear very subtle (they are)... but it's anything but simple, until it is.
