Just when I get a breather she hits me with something else. The good thing is that it will end one of these days.
It seems that they can sense when we are starting to do better and then they jump in to bring us down. It will be over one of these days...some days it can't be soon enough.
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Don't you remember I am abusive and neglectful. I put her through misery for the last 7+ years of our M.......I know that I am not a perfect man but her reasons and excuses have me scratching my head.
Don't listen to her bullsh$t. She is just like my H. Just like me, you know you put more into your marriage than your W did. I'm still scratching my head also on why my marriage fell apart. In my case, it alls comes down to selfishness and pride.
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Great question... I sometimes wonder if she has totally accepted her decision. It seems to me that she still tries to prove to me that she can get along fine without me.
I know my H hasn't and I got a feeling your W hasn't either. They are trying to convince themselves that this is what that need to do. As my husband says...Dammit, I'm happy. Your wife might as well say the same.
Keep staying strong and hanging in there. We will make it.
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