I know what you mean. Although I don't think I have an OM to worry about at this time. I am afraid to ask. I don't want to "Up set the boat". I do agree though some how ya need to get through to him that you are NOT ok with this. Something that may help you. I have a feeling that you might take things to personal. I to have this problem. Some times our spouses just say stuff not rally meaning anything and we take it personal. The example of the accessories for the air compressor is a good example. He just raddled it off. Not thinking not meaning anything. Something like that ya need to let go. Now if he came over and said something like “me and the OW went to the movies and then out dancing. That is rubbing it in and not called for.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
