So if there is one particular behavior that men should follow to become attractive to women, I say it is not give a rat's ass about whether you (the man) are attractive to women. That will attract the most women.
Well, I suppose this is what I was driving at... and there ARE behaviors that communicate that attitude. Hairdog is beginning to understand it, especially with his latest post to Lou over on his own thread.
And though it seems very obvious to me... what those behaviors are... and how I subsequently feel around a man who exhibits such behaviors... it must not be so readily apparent to the guys on this board (that isn't a criticism). That's probably because it is such a subtle understanding...
There is already a fundamental change in Hairdog, and you can see it in his writing. Compare that with CeMar's absence of understanding, and maybe that illustrates my point?
Given that we have such limited interactions with one another because we converse through a BB, I picked a tv character who I think exhibits the traits and behaviors women find attractive. I picked the character specifically because he is not a Brad Pitt type. Yet... he is still incredibly appealing. It is because of his behaviors.
