Nikki,

It's shouldn't be scary. They don't teach dialoguing until the afternoon of Saturday. By that time you have had several conversations and probably are already looking at your spouse. But for those who need reminding, they do teach it. I went several years without looking my husband in the eye. We co-existed in the same house because I never really saw him there. Aren't I terrible? It isn't really a surprise that he had an affair.