MC, I had a coworker tell me that she and H were divorced for a couple of years. She said it wasn't until that she just gave up and went on with her life that he started coming around. I'm not suggesting that you be rude, but start doing things for yourself and don't concentrate on her.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon