Like Corri says, you don't know what you don't know until you know it.
Fearless has given you the same answers I would have given myself. It is something about learning to deal with the sh!t life throws at you without whinging and moaning about it and acting it isn't fair.
Grown men need sex, but they can just deal with it better when they don't get it. If a little kid is hungry he cries and whines and is a total chore to live with until you feed him. If a grown up is hungry, he manages to deal with it until the next opportunity to eat comes along, or he goes and gets some food.
I get the feeling you are a total chore to live with unless you get sex.
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
