Give it 48 hours. Think about it, if it's a deal-breaker for you, I think that's fair for you to ask her. I asked my W the same thing back in April. She denied still being interested in her OM. She's fixed on D. I told her all she had to do was say the word and I'll walk away (won't take the girls, split everything evenly), I will be immediately done with you. Even with that out, she said no.
Sleep on it. Make sure you're certain. Then I'd say that's fair enough. Some folks here can try with an OP in the picture, I couldn't. Sounds like you're fairly certain you can't either.
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
