Thanks Nomo! Made that change and one or two other minor ones.
"I know that the D is going to be final on the 16th -- a week from today -- and I just want you to know that I'm still not convinced that it's the best solution for us. I strongly believe we can be happy again like we've been in the past; that we can start fresh with a clean slate and enjoy life in a way we both want. If there's any part of you that feels the same way, then I'd like for us to postpone the D and continue with the separation the way it is now, or even file for Legal Separation instead for the time being and put no time limit on things. If later down the road you decide that a D is really for the best, then we can always resume it and I will not stand in your way. I want you to know that over the last few months I've come to realize I will be happy, with or without you -- I really will -- I just prefer it to be with you.
I'm not looking for you to give me an answer right now. I just want to put it out there as something to consider and that's all, and if you'd like to sit down sometime and talk about anything then I'd be more than happy to do that."
More feedback anyone?
P.S. Thanks for stopping by BM07 -- Haven't talked with W yet since last week so I'm not sure how she's doing (waiting for her to call me back today since I left her a VM earlier). Here is the text message conversation we had Friday evening after I arrived in Seattle:
Me: Hey, it's GD. You can reach me at 123-555-6789 if you need to. Be back Monday night. Thanks again. W: When do you want the kids? Me: Tuesday W: K
Pretty short and to the point. I'm guessing that she had received the cell phone charm and brief note apologizing for the raft trip sitch, and that she had seen it (don't know for sure though). Don't know how she received the gesture yet though. Also, the number I gave to reach me at was from one of the girls who I traveled with. Although it was an Idaho number, I don't think she could've known it was a girl's number. Probably got her wondering though, I'm sure.
