Good or Bad??

[Have Faith]

LO,

I'm new to posting, but what OurCrises said really hit home with me. The way that she explained it sounds so much like what I'm going through too. It seems that everyday it is different. She is so right on as it relates to the loving, distant, loving distant. It is so hard not to obsess over the times when you believe he is with the OW.

I too found that the tough love approach did not work with my H. We seem to do much better living together and I feel better then too.

Didn't mean to step on your thread. I just couldn't help but comment, as the post just hit home for me.

We both have so many positives and we really need to focus on them and not the negative. Hang in there

Faith