My ride on the Roller Coaster called WAW Hell

[sadhearted]

Well I hope you continue to get your small steps that lead to restoring your marriage. It'd be great to here of a recent success.

I can tell you my H also made the statement what if I come back and you decide you don't want me or this anymore? So maybe she's feeling the same way. I know sounds kinda nuts that we'd hold out get our spouses back only to then turn around and say um no thanks. I responded with do you really think I'd be trying to save our marriage if I didn't want it? If I had wanted to boot you out I would have done it 3 times ago. (he's left 5 times now) Only one other was an actual seperation. When I said that he just laughed.

So as crazy as it may sound to you maybe she is wondering if she comes back and tries will you then decide your done.