Really? For me Chapman's groups kind of covered it all. What other one's do you suggest?
Some QT you can get/have with a friend.
As in the post above, I don't understand how you can get a SPOUSAL LL from anyone but your spouse.
The LL concept is about how to express and receive love from your SPOUSE.
While the LL idea is VERY simplistic and on it's own probably not enough to change things unless your marriage was already good, I still found it to be a useful concept. Ideally it's a way for both partners to learn how to "speak" and "listen" to each other.
If your spouse's LL is AOS and your LL is QT, you might be misinterpreting each other. if you read the LL book, you might understand that your H changing the oil in your car IS his way of expressing love rather than just feeling resentful that he "chose" to do that rather than spend time with you. However if you learn the LL, maybe the H and W could change the oil together!!
But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus
