Are there 5LL? More like 10~20 in reality. Then factor in one love buster can wipe out 5~20 good LL activities.
Back to Mrs.Cac’s question. Should I expect him to initiate those QT/WOA activities or should I just be happy (settle) for him willingly doing them, even if I know he doesn't truly want to do them? He didn't like it when I willingly go along with sex. He prefers that I desire it. Most of the time be happy he does them with you. Some QT you can get/have with a friend. Same with shopping.
For me sex was better for me when BB had fun too. Is it ever exciting or fun for you? If so explain to Cac when it is and ask him to do the things more when it is more fun/pleasurable.
The whole feed-back chain needs to be improved. It can work with QT. Don’t expect Cac to figure out what you like about QT, after you feel some good QT has happened, tell Cac which times/parts of the QT meant the most to you. He can pick out the elements of the QT that he can do more readily and increase their frequency w/o acting as much. That way his unconfortableness will be lessened. Don’t do the feed-back all of the time, but do give some hints.
